Help wanted!

Posted on March 31st, 2008 in Scout, baby stuff by Aardvark

We finally got Scout’s “Big Girl” room all ready and set up yesterday. It is gorgeous. I will have to post pictures soon.

Now I need to know…HOW THE HELL DO I MAKE HER STAY IN BED???????

For whatever reason, my child who is totally wild 99% of the time, never attempted to get out of the crib….but last night she was up wandering around in the middle of the night (luckily motherhood has blessed me with the curse of extremely light sleep) and right now I am trying to get her to take a nap and I have had to take her back in there a couple of times already!!!

Tips? Tricks? Drugs? What does it take?

ETA: I am freaking Super Nanny! Today at nap time I just kept taking her back and telling her it was nap time. I didn’t get upset or fuss and the last time I didn’t even take her…I just told her to go back to bed that it was nap time. About 10 minutes later she was sound asleep. I am freaking AWESOME ;)

2 years

Posted on March 28th, 2008 in Scout, pictures by Aardvark

Here is a link to Scout’s 2 year portraits. I have to order them next week….I am stuck (I love them all)!!! There are 18 (there were 70) to look at…so cast your votes!

ETA: These are not cropped or retouched…just proofs. Please disregard the stretch marks in the last shot.

Someone’s Hero

Posted on March 27th, 2008 in About me by Aardvark

A month or so ago I had a phone call from a former student. She was doing a project for school and wanted to interview me. I answered her questions and was flattered that she had chosen me to interview. Today I got an email from her mother containing the final written part of the project. The project was on heroes. I have to share it with you because it made my day …and so that you will know that I am not a total bitch. ;)

Thank you Bailey for giving me permission to post your writing. You have no idea how much this means to me!

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My hero isn’t quite like anyone else. She isn’t particularly famous, nor is she very rich, but she is fabulous! My hero is a teacher, actress, mother, and role model. She is creative, beautiful, and funny. As a teacher, she is gentle but firm. If a student needed a hug, her arms were wide open. If a student required discipline, her punishing tongue was enough to put them into line. As an actress, her melodic voice is heard easily. As a mother, she is gentle, kind, loving, and, most of all, patient. As a role model, well, she’s everything and more.

Her name is Ronda Shickles.

Ronda claims that, as a child, she always did her best to be a good student. She also says that she kept up with her homework and never got into that much trouble. Ronda has stated that her hero is the fictional character Charlotte, from the book Charlotte’s Web. She likes her as a hero because she is polite, peaceful, gentle, and a good writer. She also says that Charlotte tries to do what is right, which Ronda herself always tries to do.

I remember her fondly as a great SPACE teacher. Each time I attended, we always had stimulating conversations about an array of subjects, from famous quotes to architecture. Her classroom was stocked with mind boosting activities: card games, LEGOs, and 3D puzzles among them. Thursdays; SPACE days, were my favorite part of the week.

Ronda is an experienced actress and producer. She is on the theater board for Fantasy Playhouse and Theater Huntsville. She has served as producer for The Frog Prince and the Ugly Duckling, James and the Giant Peach, and The Jungle Book, all for Fantasy Playhouse. She has performed in many plays, some of which include: King Midas and the Touch of Gold, Just So Stories, James and the Giant Peach, and The Women. She also served as assistant director for To Kill a Mockingbird, in which I played Scout. Soon Ronda will lead the Fantasy Players, a group of middle and high school students that go to different elementary schools to get youths interested in theater.

Ronda, besides teaching, acting, and producing, is also a mother. On March 13, 2006, Scout Olivia Shickles was born. Ronda expertly combines a teacher’s gentle, loving spirit and a producer’s calm authority to make herself an excellent mother. Scout is quick to learn, and because of Ronda and her husband, Steve, she is walking, talking and running better than almost all other toddlers her age. Soon Ronda will have to make her mix again, for within a few months, Penelope Anne Shickles will join their family.

Ronda is a great person, inside and out. She is smart, funny, and radiates creativity. I would love to be even halfway as nice as she is. I look forward to getting to know Scout better, and to meeting Penelope. Maybe someday a child will look up to me as I look up to her.

Blog it forward

Posted on March 24th, 2008 in Need to know, That makes me happy by Aardvark

I saw a fabulous idea on Elaine’s blog...and I am going to modify it a bit (since she is way more crafty than I am) and do it myself.

I will perform a random act of kindness for the first three people to comment to this. This doesn’t mean that you will be the recipient…it means you will choose the recipient. Maybe you would like me to anonymously send you grandma a new book to read or your best friend some flowers or your sister a surprise box of her favorite treats or whatever idea you have. It won’t be big (think $20). And it won’t be immediate. But it will happen in the next 365 days if you are one of the first three to comment.

The catch? You have to offer this on your blog to three commenters.

If you’ve already done this on your blog, please don’t be one of my three. If you don’t have a blog — get one — they’re free! And then you can participate! Feel free to modify the act to meet your needs…I did! It is the idea that we are after!

Eggs and such

Posted on March 23rd, 2008 in Scout, pictures by Aardvark

Yesterday Scout decorated eggs and today she hunted them! Here are a few of our favorite shots!

Easter 08

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Easter 08

an outing

Posted on March 21st, 2008 in My Peeps, Outings, Scout, pictures by Aardvark

friends

Thursday Scout and I joined Miss Zoot and her posse at the Huntsville Botanical Gardens for an outing. Scout had a blast hanging out with NikkiZ and developed a big fat toddler crush on Lil’Z. Poor Scout and NikkiZ…it was like they were being followed by the paparazzi. I took pictures and Zoot took pictures and Lil’Z took pictures. It was a gorgeous day and we had a great time! We followed it up with lunch at Bandito. (my 3rd visit in 3 days) Fabulous!

White People

Posted on March 19th, 2008 in Whatever by Aardvark

TWO! (oh so very two)

Posted on March 19th, 2008 in Scout, lemmings by Aardvark

Scout is so TWO lately.
(I may have to change my name to Rosemary.)

Today I took Scout to have her two year portraits. It was …eventful. She was in a good mood and fine until the camera came out and then her horns sprouted and the devil kicked in!
(There was even a baby lamb for her to play with…) She wanted me to be in all the pictures…until we tried to take a few with two of us and then of course that was eaxctly what she DID NOT want! AHHHHHHH!!!!!!!
She is so NON COMPLIANT!!!
Don’t get me wrong…I love the qualities that also drive me crazy! I love that she is her own person, free thinking, independent and fearless. BUT SOMETIMES I NEED TO BE THE BOSS!!!!

I bet the life of a mother lemming is very boring.

a little dance…

Posted on March 18th, 2008 in Whatever by Aardvark

Scout and I had a couple of errands to run today. One of those errands was to Hancock Fabrics.
DO YOU KNOW WHAT IS NOW NEXT DOOR TO HANCOCK!?!?!?!?

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It is something so grand that i almost did a dance in the parking lot!!!! Yes Ladies and Gentlemen there is now a
BANDITO BURRITO on my end of town! All is right with the world.

I plan on lunching there A LOT in the next few weeks….anyone want to join me?

…on your Second Birthday

Posted on March 13th, 2008 in Scout by Aardvark

Dear Scout,

Another year and again I am amazed at how far we have come. It seems like yesterday we were celebrating your first birthday and now you are TWO.
Wow…Two.
You seem to be embracing two with all of your heart. Over the last year we have learned and confirmed many things about you. You are stubborn, demanding, strong willed and at times you are very difficult BUT you are also loving, caring, sensitive, generous and hysterical. You are pretty freaking cute too (lucky for you because that saves you quite frequently.)

here i come

I am amazed at all the thing you have manged to accomplish in the last year. You started walking and talking.

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You are an amazing communicator. I may not always know exactly what you are saying but I can tell in a second how you feel about it. You are one of the most expressive people I have ever known. (You get that form me…not daddy.)

you talkin' to me?

i like to scream

You now have a full set of teeth and yet you haven’t bothered to focus any of that energy on hair. I have a feeling that TWO will be the Year of the Hair. (But what do I know…) It is fortunate that you have one of the most beautiful faces i have ever seen…you don’t really need hair. (but if you get some…i will totally put hair bows in it)

There are so many things that fascinate you right now. You continually force me to slow down and look at things in a whole new way. You love to smell flowers and you want to smell every single one we pass. You love to stop and listen when you hear birds singing. You love to be outside and running. Your playset is a year old and you can’t get enough of it. You climb the ladder and the climbing wall like you have been doing it for years. You are fearless. You love coming down the slide and seldom deprive us of a “Weeeeeee!!!!” as you make your way down.
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Did I mention that you are fearless?
doooowwwwnnnnn

One of your first loves was Elmo and while he still has a special place in your heart you have discovered the magic of Toy Story. The look on your face when we even mention “Woody” is amazing. You truly love him.
she loves him

You have learned about friends and you get so excited to hang out with people your size!
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Your imagination is kicking into high gear and it cracks me up. You “act” like me and mimic my daily activities. You have made me very aware of my habits (good and bad) and made me realize how much influence I still have over you. You make me feel like the most amazing woman in the world because you think I am. (Please remember that when you are 13)
I see so much of Daddy in you too. The way you walk, the way you laugh, the way things have to be done just so. It is such an amazing thing to watch you take little parts of us and become your own little person.

Your energy is never ending and I have a constant love hate relationship with it. Really I think I am just jealous that you are so free and full of life. I try to take a little of that with me everyday. I hope you never lose that passion for life. I know I will do everything in my power to make sure that you that you don’t.

For the last two years you have been the center of my world. You have made me crazy, angry and have filled my heart with more love and happiness than I ever imagined. You are the most precious thing I have ever been a part of and I am a better person with you in my world.

things are looking up
The next year holds many changes for all of us. You are going to be a big sister! And while I know you don’t fully understand what that means, I do know that you are going to be the best big sister ever! It is a tough job but you, my sweet monster, are completely up for the task!

Thank you for making me slow down and enjoy life.
Happy Birthday!
I love you little monster!
Mommy

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